in life we come across many choices. some easy, some most difficult. many times the choices are taken that aren't in the best interest of ourselves, nor the folks around us.
why do we do this?? it's as though we sit in a vacuum of repetitive "wrong" choices and seem ferever doomed by 'em. haunted by their memories, most times their scars ~ internal and external.
one of my least favorite things to hear is, "what choice did i have". in hindsight we see the options & agree fer the most part "things woulda been different" had we chosen a different path.
this aside, does that give one the power to wallow in self pity fer an eternity? blame others fer their choices? wherein lies that invisible "line" one crosses from bein' supportive to bein' co-dependent? how does one stop the madness?
"choices" made in the past have shaped ya into who ya are today. if ya don't like that person in the mirror, ya have the "choice" to change. instead of internalizin' and or rehashin' the past (constantly...as if repeatin' it over & over will make it all disappear), accept it fer what it is - each a piece of that unique puzzle called "you".
make the conscious "choice" to live yer day as the magical gift that it is.
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